Pursuing girls is a matter of patience and skill, and sending good night messages is one of the common ways. But is sending a goodnight message every night really necessary? This article will explore this issue from multiple perspectives.
1. Consider each other’s feelings
When pursuing a girl, we should respect each other’s feelings. If a girl finds it heartwarming to receive a good night message every night, then we can continue sending it. But if the girl feels that doing so is too cumbersome or stressful, we should consider reducing the number of messages or stopping them.
2. Don’t be too dependent
Over-reliance on a certain behavior may make people unnatural and lose themselves. If we think sending a goodnight message every night is a must, we may become anxious and nervous, and even forget other, more important things. Therefore, when pursuing girls, we should maintain confidence and independent thinking.
3. Express concern appropriately
Although it is not necessary to send a good night message every night, it is still important to express concern appropriately. We can show our care and thoughtfulness by greeting others and sharing moments from our lives. This will not only enhance the relationship between each other, but also allow girls to understand us better.
4. Pay attention to time and frequency
If we decide to send a good night message every night, then we must pay attention to time and frequency. Texting too frequently or at inappropriate times may make a girl feel irritated or bored. Therefore, we should choose the appropriate time and frequency based on the other person's daily routine and preferences.
Courting girls requires care, patience and skill. While sending a goodnight message every night is a way to show you care, it's not necessary. We should respect each other's feelings, maintain confidence and independent thinking, and express concern appropriately. At the same time, it is also important to pay attention to time and frequency.
